When a loved one passes away, funeral services are an important part of the grieving process. They allow us to mourn our loss publicly.

Social distancing has changed many things about our world. One thing it hasn’t changed, though, is that loved ones will pass away and we will feel grief from these losses.

It can seem like having a funeral service during these times is too difficult, which can lead families to put off having a funeral service entirely.

With so many changes and uncertainties, the ritual of a funeral service can be a source of great comfort. In fact, it may be more important than ever to have a funeral service as it allows us to feel a sense of closure and control in what is otherwise a time when we likely feel very out of control. Even if you decide on cremation, you can still have a funeral service for your loved one.

There will be some differences to funeral services during this time. Due to social distancing, family and friends may not be able to travel to the location of the service. In addition, group gatherings are limited in size.

However, this does not mean that it is impossible to hold a funeral service. On the contrary, the age of social media has made it possible to include just about anyone who wants to be part of the service. These days, it is possible to securely and safely live stream the funeral service so that friends and family can be a part of the service no matter where they live.  

Funeral homes are also making accommodations, such as allowing a rotation of mourners to come through during visitation hours, provided they follow social distancing protocols.

While this may not be the ideal situation, this time of mourning is important and delaying it entirely can magnify your grief and delay the healing process.

It is important to remember that these social distancing protocols are not permanent. For now, you can hold a small, family-only service that is live streamed to others. Then, once this time is over, you can hold a second, larger and more fitting farewell on a later date – perhaps on a birthday, anniversary or holiday.