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Is it okay to distribute cremated remains among family members?

After a loved one is cremated, it is possible to distribute the ashes among different people and places.

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These days, it is common for people to opt for cremation following death. After a loved one is cremated, family members may wonder what they should do with their loved one’s ashes. Some families may opt to scatter the ashes or keep them in a single urn in a specific location such as a cemetery niche. However, it is also possible to distribute the ashes among different people and places.  

Keepsake urns or jewelry are a popular option for many families. Keepsake urns are smaller urns that hold a portion of the deceased’s ashes. This idea is that the ashes can be divided up among family members who live in different places. Another option is to place some ashes in a piece of keepsake jewelry such as a pendant. You can even distribute some of the ashes among different family members and then keep the remainder of the ashes in a cemetery. This way, everyone is able to keep their loved one close, but it also allows families to have a specific place to visit to remember and honor their loved one. In some cases, people may wonder if it is acceptable to distribute ashes this way. With the exception of a view few religious sects, this distribution of ashes is just fine. Some religions have definite views against cremation. Generally speaking, if a religion allows for cremation it is also acceptable to store them in a single container, distribute them or scatter them. The law as well doesn’t have much to say on the topic. Unless there is a large family dispute over how the ashes should be stored or dispersed that must be settled in court, which is pretty rare, the law allows for families to do as they choose. The most important thing to consider in these circumstances is the wishes of the deceased. Whenever possible, try to follow the wishes of your loved one. And if possible, let your own family know your wishes so that they can feel comfortable making the decision when the time comes.

 

  

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